Everyone becomes a X loser when they give their hearts to Jesus Christ. The biggest loser is the enemy. Jesus defeated the enemy at Calvary.
Colossians 2:14-15 Having wiped out the handwriting of requirements that was against us, which was contrary to us. And He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross. 15 Having disarmed principalities and powers, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it.
When you receive Christ in your life you were translated out of the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of light.
Colossians 1:12-13 Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light:
13 Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son:
The Enemy’s Kingdom which is the kingdom of darkness represents defeat, fear, failure, guilt, shame, sickness, disease, hatred, and every evil thing.
Jesus’ Kingdom represents love, life, light, peace, victory, joy, health, wisdom, and every good thing.
So any loses you experienced in the past do not define you. Because that is not who God made you. Simply because the Bible states in I John 5:4 For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.
You become a born winner. There is no failure and no defeat in God. As a matter fact God does not have any fear to give us. There are many scriptures in the Bible that speak of victory.
II Corinthians 2:14 Now thanks be to God who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and through us diffuses the fragrance of His knowledge in every place.
Romans 8:37 Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.
With God all things become new. I encourage you to live a winner’s life, by getting a picture(s) of who you desire to become and do in life. Learn the principles of God’s Word to guide you toward your desired result. Practice the principles daily and allow your life to be transformed. That will bring you fulfillment and God honor in your life.